will THESE ever last?

everyone experienced phases (perhaps that's was the climax of everything) in their lives where they get super excited about something.say no and you're for a liar.

i think for us post-RBS students now (just,lets see,near to a month after that), we ARE quite on the high for God and in keeping touch with fellow schoolmates.take for instance this blog,it was started for the sake of getting back the 'RBS feel' where we emo sama-sama and share our inner thoughts etc etc.then we have the RBS multiply and friendster sites.we had (only kl folks!ish...) many many reunions and spent many many hours (i'm sure) on the net,chatting away and checking out each other's blogs,profiles and so forth.

but my question now is,will all THESE ever last?

hey,okay..chill.pause over there.read my thoughts unfold before you shoot me.

back to the question,will it last?you can call me a wet blanket for now,but i think you wouldn't later on.i've watched and witnessed most of all these after-somethings going strong for a while,and then slowly,if not even faster,dying away.swimming in the pre-existence era after that.it is very discouraging when that happens.well,not all's like that,but certainly most are like that,and like many hoped,i hope this blog still exists when all else fails.

i'm not trying to say that after having taken all the efforts to draw people close even after the end of something,it is just purely vain efforts.it will be successful and people still are close,if everyone puts in efforts.

so you ask,why fail?i suppose too often we're just 'exchanging pleasantries',to quote anderson.most of the time we forget the main point of keeping in touch.it is not too just for the sake of hi and bye,but to be accountability partners as well.when we're just exchanging greetings,we tend to run out of topics,and then we're running out of relationships.yes,greeting is the beginning of something,but surface talk's not my cup of tea.

let's put these questions in mind,when we meet (physically or not),do we take the effort to know of each other's lives?do we just dwell in gossips and forget totally what was taught in RBS?do we forget the part where we're to look out for each other?

i'm not one who will put in effort in things like these,to go online and chat with every single person i see.i know one of these days,my contact with you guys will pooh,be gone.i pray not!
i guess this blog will be the life.haha.

after all said,let's not have friends just for the sake of another friend.let's have God as the centre of our relationships,then all these will last.

keep it going strong!

by the way,i started writing in my blog.sueisin.blogspot.com.yes kak jo,i'm blogging now.it's one of my once many attempts to continue a blog and so far,the grand total of entries is.....TWO!so yeah,do have a look at it and tell me what you think of what i posted.

thank you for reading my boring entry.and oh yeah...shoot.
tsuey